painting His Dream...

with colors of love.





Every time someone asks me, "Why are you still single?", I wish I could ask them back "Why are you still married?" ;)

Being Single doesn't mean that I had a 'love-failure'. 
(The term has no place in my dictionary because I strongly believe "Love never fails")
Being Single doesn't mean that I'm too career-focused. 
(I certainly know there're more important things in life than money)

Being Single doesn't mean that my parents are selfish. 
(For God's sake, you have no rights to talk about them!)
Being Single doesn't mean that I'm afraid to handle marital issues. 
(I'm strong enough to face challenges in life whether it is before or after getting married)

Being Single doesn't mean that I'm still seeking Mr.Perfect.
(Just shut up! I know the mess I am and I would never even dare to do that.)
Being Single doesn't mean that I'm a lesbian. 
(Yes, I've faced that question as well.. :(..)

Being Single doesn't mean that I'm dreaming too much to actually fall in love. 
(My dreams have nothing to do with a guy. They're of much higher level than what you could think of)
Most of all, Being Single doesn't mean that I'm desperate!!!!

Being Single just means I'm living life by myself as I'm still to find someone to share it with.  It may be too late. I may find or I may not. But that doesn't affect my happiness a bit.

To all of you who have made such huge assumptions about me, I ask only one thing.
Before you start pointing out somebody's mistakes or start advising them, please do consider how much effort have you taken to understand them from where they stand and what they're made of.

I'm happy being Single! I know I'll be happy when I get married too.
Because, I believe in a God who makes everything beautiful in its time!

Thank you for all your concern. Sorry, I don't need it anymore!!!

~.~. JC Nithya ~.~.





All we hear around us is to "Never never give up". But lately I learnt that sometimes we need to give up.

We need to give up trying to find all the answers; some questions are never meant to be answered. 

We need to give up figuring a way out for every problem; some solutions unfold at the right time in the right way. 


We need to let go of certain people; some relationships are not meant to last a lifetime.

We need to give up walking by sight and start walking by faith.



~.~. JC Nithya .~.~













yes 
you hurt me 

you think you're superior 
you pretend to be innocent 
you act like you ll never be judged 
you forget the wounds you created 

you find it easy to push aside the past 
you boost up broken ego by belittling others 
you lie about everything just to make your way 
...

i wish i could. 
but i do not hate you 
my friend. 

i see 
a fearful child 
deep down inside of you 
standing alone 
never been accepted 
longing to be valued 
craving to be loved 

i wish roses on your path 
so one day you ll stop to see the thorns 

i wish light in your world 
so one day you'll see things as they are 

i wish you be loved unconditionally 
so one day you'll know how cruel you were. 

i wish you many more days to live 
so one day you ll know what you've lost.


~.~. JC Nithya .~.~




i do not know
what you're going through..

i do not know
how deep you've been hurt..

i do not know
which question troubles you the most..

i do not know
why you're hiding your pain..

but i do know
who can comfort you and strengthen you.

i pray for you, my dear friend
to get healed,
to receive peace,
to shine forth light,
to know your purpose here,
to find where you belong,
to be all you're supposed to be,
to share your joy with the world.

i'm here to pray for you, my dear friend
as long as i live.


~.~. JC Nithya .~.~





I love You
not because i hate being burned in hell.

I love You
not because i fear of Your judgement day.

I love You
not because i want to reserve a place in heaven.

I love You
not because i want to insulate myself from all the pain.

I  love You
not because i want to get access to Your resources.

I love You
not because You ll make my life easier to live..

No.
my Dearest Lord,
I love You

because You first loved me.



~.~. JC Nithya .~.~

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
(John 15:13)



Source: 
Should I worship Him from fear of hell, may I be cast into it. Should I serve Him from desire of gaining heaven, may He keep me out. But should I worship Him from love alone, He reveals Himself to me, that my whole heart may be filled with His love and presence.  ~ Sadhu Sundar Singh


















may you find the truth and
the truth shall set you free.

may you come to the light and
reflect it to the world.

may you have peace
that passes all understanding .

may your day be filled
with
little surprises and sweet moments.

may you have the strength
to overcome your obstacles.

may you forget your hurts and

move ahead..

may you live the life
designed perfectly for you.

so one day

i'll be at the Master's side
to see you finish your race off

with pride...

~.~. Nithya JC ~.~.
[ Written on 13.09.2010 ]

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